Make Your Move

                                            Make Your Move

                                                                  ----- Md Mozadded Hossen

                                            

        We are all meant to live a happy, prosperous, meaningful life, a life full of success, prosperity, and abundance. But our conditions make us unsuccessful. We are supposed to win but our conditions make us loser. Even worse we convinced ourselves that we cannot win. Thus we complete our vicious circle of self-limiting belief, which lead us into the path of ultimate failure. As a result, life seems to us dairy, weary, dull, and meaningless business, whereas, life is beautiful and meaningful, which has a divine purpose. Just one thing reverses our life from success to failure, from prosperity to problems: our conditions.

       It has been proved psychologically & scientifically that every human being is having sixty thousand thoughts every day. It is needless to say most of them are useless. Ironically enough, very few of us have control over our thoughts. Positive thought changes us positively and negative thought makes our life painful. Furthermore, negative thought welcomes all type of failures in our life. It is a vicious circle. It enmeshes us in the web of dark side of life. As a result, frustrations and mental agonies corrode life’s valuable energy. Life seems to us a bitter experience.

       Especially, the teenage boys and girls are pretty confused and doubtful about life sometimes. And they really do not know how to harness with the positive thoughts and act on it. Most of the time, they become very confused, in terms of taking decision or setting goals, they do not understand their potential. In some severe cases, they lost themselves in the maze of their thoughts and cannot get themselves out of that enigma. Frustrations, failures, and false concept regarding values of life create distracting belief systems in them, which add more problems in their life. Their parents are so busy and their schools are so commercial that there is nobody to mentor them. As a result, they go far away from their objective of life. They move their concentration from study to other ways. In the search for mental peace and happiness, they are becoming drug addicted. Subsequently, addiction leads those committing social crimes. 

      However, recently, Oishee Rahman, a seventeen-year-old daughter of a police officer has introduced Freudian crime in Bangladeshi society. She killed her parents pathetically with the assistance of her drug addicted friends. She was severely drug addicted and wanted to lead a life without any barrier or obligation, which she defined as independent life. Because of drug addiction she considered her parents are only setbacks to hold on an independent life. But ironically enough, she discovered herself in the prison with ultimate sufferings.

     Anyway, Oishee Rahman is not alone, there are a lot across the globe that falls into the instinct and negative thoughts based social traps and causing distractions in their own life, in their family and affecting viciously our human society.

       Millions of people around the globe are experiencing pains and agonies, which are unnecessarily blocking success and happiness of life. We are born to be successful but your hellish mental blocks conditioning you to be unsuccessful. Life seems to us a meaningless object. Darkness overwhelms our entire existence. In addition, happiness remains beyond touch.

       Nonetheless, amid the din of doubts and confusions, being presented in the web of negative thoughts, ever-present fear of becoming failure, there is thousands of millions of times possibility to be successful in every transaction of our life. All we need just to make our move.

Undeniable Truth

Romantic love (Teen Tendency)

Romantic love is most obsessing and overwhelming component of teen. The main discussion of teen is not about academic subjects or any social skill but about love.

Teen’s tendency of romantic love is ridiculous in many ways. For example, when they fall in love, they think that their love is the best love of the world. If any movie is made based on their love that will be a smash hit in the box office & will win Oscars in all categories. If their love story is written as a novel then they are going to win Nobel Prize in literature.

Romantic love incites the ocean of pride in teen’s heart. For example, they think having a boy friend or girl friend is most extraordinary achievement of life like, I have an i-phone or Sheryl Sandburg, the CEO of face book, was my father’s girl friend or our BMWs are latest so on.

Teen relationship is most ironical. In imagination they act like hero & heroine. Alike Hindi movie they are singing in the rain and dancing in the perk, etc. Interestingly enough, at school, washroom is the most preferable dating spot. Without marriage they behave like husband & wife. Shockingly, in composition writing if they are asked ‘imagine you as a successful leader and write an autobiography’ they surely fail to write.

Most terrible aspect of teen romantic love is their misuse of emotion. Sometimes they ostensibly express their emotion in such an extent that seems loving is the only objective of life. If any competitors arises most of the teen boys become so furious as if they have written their name in WWF champion trophy and it’s a must winning game.

Teen’s expression of love is quite peculiar. They show their highest stupidity by writing their lover’s name on their hands. They use blood as a means of disclosure of their love. When they fail to make love they put scratch on their hands by means of blade. Most of the boys turn their depression into skill of teasing girls with utmost taboo words. Whereas, girls crush & burn silently.

Anyway, teen’s romantic love is one kind of selfish love. They always give importance on their own interest. Caring & sharing is valueless. They become reluctant to learning good things and disobedient to parents. In a word, teen’s romantic love is a self-sabotaging adventure.

Importance of Youth, Public Service, Education and the Arts in Bangladesh

The emergence of Bangladesh in the world map was the most pressing issue among the world-politician during the erstwhile century. Even, at present, many of the renowned politicians and foreign diplomats are considering Bangladesh as a sleeping giant of development. Ergo, the importance of youth, public service, education and the arts is immutable in Bangladesh.

Youth is the vital force of development of every society. They are the vanguard and most valuable catalyst towards any positive changes. The better part of the forty-two years of history of independent Bangladesh implies the unforgettable contribution of the youth. The young generation always play important role in every transaction of changes of social and political backdrop, such as : liberation war in 1971, movement against despotism 1991, etc. Their driving force always let them taking a step ahead to create mass awareness regarding education, health and other fundamental social demands. Their stentorian voice against injustice and inequality in different time is praiseworthy. And yet, it is a matter of regrets that just because of proper guidance and direction the youth of present generation is derailed. Their potentiality decreases into a considerable degree. Moral degradation of young generation is one of the major problems of our society. Nonetheless, their motivation to bring positive change in society cannot be denied. However, we have to believe that tomorrow never dies. All we need is to make their moves toward the ultimate development so that we may get a peaceful place to live in.

Importance of education is everlasting, as education is the progressive discovery of our self-ignorance. Ignorance is the source of darkness.  And darkness is the root of all evils.
Conversely, education is the source of light and light drives out all darkness. Education alone ushers a nation on the path of groundbreaking success as well as elevates inspiration for all necessary development. According to the context of Bangladesh, the demands of education are skyrocketing. People of Bangladesh realize that only does education give them solution of all national problems, which they have been suffering from for years. Education is the bedrock of social value. As a result, nowadays many of the Bangladeshi students are going abroad for higher study. United States of America is the first choice for every level of education of Bangladeshi students. American center and EMK center are promoting the aspiration of taking global standard education of the Bangladeshi students in the most possible way. There is not the shadow of a doubt that Education USA has drown a huge impact on Bangladeshi students and fired up their passion of higher study in the USA. As far as my knowledge goes, the tireless effort of Education USA has brought dramatic change in the domain of education of Bangladesh.

Public service is the integral part of our society. We are all serving to the public of our society one way or another. Public service goes towards the people through different type of government or non-government organizations. One the other hand, the people of our society is fundamentally linked with these organizations. Therefore, the demands of public service are very high in Bangladesh. Nevertheless, very few people are getting their necessary services. Bangladesh is a small but highly populated country. Government organizations cannot fulfill the demands of public service. As a result, non-government organizations especially, non-profit organizations are very demand-able. The non-profit organizations are not only fulfilling the necessities of the people but also creating a space for the underprivileged but talented person to display their faculty. Thus, the non-profit organizations are playing an important role in Bangladesh.

Arts are the beauty of life. Without arts, life is meaningless. Arts give life the impeccable taste of living. Arts help life to express in different forms and colors. They disclose stories of life through the manifestation of thoughts and feelings. The disclosure of the feelings of love and hatred, happiness and sorrow, equality and inequality, justice and injustice, movements for the positive changes, beauty of nature, truth of life, mystery of unknown so on and so forth is depicted through every single sketch of arts. Arts connect our spirits to the universe to pervade inner-self. Bangladesh is a land of artists. There are umpteen of unspeakable languages of arts are bubbling in the true heart of these artists. When opportunity comes, they express. In addition, through that expression we come down to understand the beauty of living. By knowing the importance of arts, there are lot of institutions have been built until now. These institutions are playing important role by proving a systematic form of arts as well as creating a space for the artists to practice. Most strikingly, the arts of Bangladesh are now well known in the world.

To conclude, human demands are illimitable and necessities know no boundary. Notwithstanding, necessity is mother of all inventions. The more time goes by earthshaking discoveries and invention will be created. However, everything is for the people and for the peace of  society. Ergo, the importance of youth, education, public service and the arts is timeless not only in Bangladesh but also everywhere in the world.